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		<description><![CDATA[Susan S. Woodhouse
Pennsylvania State University
Recently Meifen Wei wrote a very interesting News You Can Use (NYCU) feature on implications of attachment theory and research for counseling and psychotherapy (see the Division 29 website, http://www.divisionofpsychotherapy.org/). Her NYCU article focused on links between attachment and the development of coping styles and relationship patterns, as well as on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Susan S. Woodhouse</h2>
<h3>Pennsylvania State University</h3>
<p>Recently Meifen Wei wrote a very interesting News You Can Use (NYCU) feature on implications of attachment theory and research for counseling and psychotherapy (see the Division 29 website, http://www.divisionofpsychotherapy.org/). Her NYCU article focused on links between attachment and the development of coping styles and relationship patterns, as well as on understanding attachment-related aspects of the dynamics that underlie individuals’ emotional difficulties. Her article provided some very helpful tips on how psychotherapists can help those high on attachment anxiety and/or avoidance to change coping strategies that might not be working well and help them meet their needs in more satisfying ways. The goal of the present article is to talk about empirical work that helps to shed light on how client attachment might influence the <em>process</em> of individual psychotherapy with adults, with an emphasis on the role of attachment in the <em>psychotherapy relationship</em>. By better understanding how attachment-related dynamics might play out in psychotherapy, we might be better able to anticipate how our clients might experience therapy and help them get more from the experience of psychotherapy.</p>
<p>There has been a great deal of interest in attachment as a variable that can affect the process (and outcome) of psychotherapy (e.g., Daniel, 2006; Lopez, 1995; Lopez &amp; Brennan, 2000; Mallinckrodt, 2000; Mohr, Gelso, &amp; Hill, 2005). Most of the research has focused on the links between attachment and the working alliance. However, there has also been some research on clients’ attachment to the therapist, the role of attachment in transference and countertransference, and additional processes such as attachment-related differences in client memory for in-session emotion.</p>
<p>In order to understand the role of attachment in the psychotherapy relationship, it is important to understand how Bowlby (1988) conceptualized the psychotherapist as a <em>secure base</em> for the client. Bowlby argued that the attachment relationship becomes an attachment relationship as the client begins to experience the psychotherapist as a source of help, safety, comfort, and acceptance. The client, whose attachment system is activated because of the distress the client is experiencing, becomes attached to the psychotherapist; he or she begins to be able to use the therapist to explore and reflect on painful life events and feelings, knowing that the psychotherapist provides a secure base for this sometimes emotionally difficult process. Just as the presence of the attachment figure allows a child to go out and explore, the presence of the psychotherapist as a secure base for exploration allows the client to do the hard work of psychotherapy.</p>
<p>Bowlby (1988) believed that the purpose of psychotherapy is to accomplish five central tasks: (a) to use the therapist as a secure base from which to explore, (b) to come to understand how the client currently relates to other people and how those relationships are influenced by the client’s internal working models of attachment, (c) to examine the relationship with the psychotherapist as a way of better understanding unconscious working models and biases, (d) to reflect on how working models of attachment are rooted in childhood experiences with primary attachment figures, and (e) to use the relationship with the psychotherapist and the work of psychotherapy to change the older working models of attachment that were once adaptive but are no longer helpful. Revising the working models allows for better relationships and emotion regulation strategies to emerge. Without the safety of the therapist as a secure base, however, it is difficult for the client to do the work required in psychotherapy.</p>
<p>Thus, it is important for the client to attach to the therapist. Because the relationship with the therapist, however, is theorized to be strongly influenced by previous attachment experiences with important caregivers (Bowlby, 1988), the client’s attachment to the therapist may not necessarily be a secure attachment even with a therapist who is consistently warm and accepting. Sometimes, the initial attachment is an insecure attachment—but the hope is that over time if the psychotherapist consistently provides a secure base, the relationship will eventually shift to a secure one. We still need prospective studies with repeated measures to see if this is actually what happens in therapy, but clinical experience would suggest that this may be true.</p>
<p>Mallinckrodt, Gantt, and Coble (1995) developed the Client Attachment to the Therapist (CATS) measure. Mallinckrodt et al. conceptualized client attachment to the therapist in terms of three dimensions: secure, preoccupied-merger, and fearful-avoidant. Secure attachment reflects the degree to which clients tend to be able to use the therapist as a secure base. Preoccupied-merger reflects the degree to which clients tend to feel preoccupied with the therapist, longing for greater contact with the therapist. Fearful-avoidant attachment reflects the degree to which the client attempts to avoid disclosing in therapy because of fears of feeling ashamed or humiliated with a therapist who is experienced as rejecting and disapproving. Mallinckrodt (2000) explained how the three dimensions of the CATS are linked to the two dimensions typically used to conceptualize attachment in adults: attachment anxiety and avoidance (Brennan, Clark, &amp; Shaver, 1998). Attachment anxiety involves a preoccupation with relationships, worry about being abandoned by others, and a desire for closeness that typically exceeds what others desire. Attachment anxiety tends to be associated with hyperactivating strategies of attachment and emotion regulation. Hyperactivating strategies may develop in the context of inconsistent caregiving, in which attending to distress, expressing distress intensely, and being on the alert for any sign of abandonment tends to maximize the overall availability of the caregiver (Kobak, Cole, Ferenz-Gillies, Fleming, &amp; Gamble, 1993) Attachment avoidance, other hand involves a desire to avoid closeness with others and avoid interpersonal dependence (Brennan et al., 1998). Attachment avoidance is associated with deactivating strategies of attachment, in which the individual learns to avoid activation of the attachment system, including any associated experience or expression of emotion. Deactivating strategies of attachment are thought to develop in the context of caregivers who tend to reject bids for attachment, such that the individual learns that suppression of attachment needs keeps the caregiver from pulling away further (Kobak et al, 2003).</p>
<p>Mallinckrodt (2000) linked the CATS to the two-dimensional model of attachment (anxiety and avoidance; Brennan et al., 1998) by explaining each dimension of the CATS in terms of anxiety and avoidance. The Secure subscale of the CATS reflects the degree to which clients experience little attachment anxiety or avoidance with the therapist, and tend to use neither hyperactivating nor deactivating strategies of attachment. High scores on the Preoccupied-Merger subscale of the CATS reflects high levels of attachment anxiety with the therapist, and a tendency to display hyperactivating strategies of attachment with their therapists. Because there are few clients who tend to show a more “pure” avoidance (also called dismissing avoidance, Bartholomew &amp; Horowitz, 1991) due to the fact that such individuals are unlikely to engage in helpseeking, there is no scale on the CATS that reflects “pure” avoidance with no attachment anxiety mixed in. The Fearful-Avoidant subscale, however, captures clients who tend to show a mixture of both high levels of both attachment anxiety and avoidance. For the clinician, these subscales are likely to conjure up images of clients who match the subscale descriptions.</p>
<p>Mallinckrodt, Gantt, and Coble (1995) found that greater secure <em>attachment to the therapist</em> was associated with higher working alliance scores, whereas fearful-avoidant <em>attachment to the therapist</em> was inversely related to working alliance. Studies of <em>general adult attachment</em> (not specifically attachment to the therapist) have found that both greater attachment anxiety (Mallickrodt, Coble, &amp; Gantt, 1995) and higher levels of attachment avoidance (Kivlighan, Patton, &amp; Foote, 1998; Parish &amp; Eagle, 2003; Satterfield &amp; Lydden, 1995, 1998) are linked to lower ratings of the working alliance in psychotherapy. Tying these two lines of research together, Mallinckrodt, Porter, and Kivlighan (2005) found that greater general insecurity in adult attachment was linked to lower security of attachment to the therapist, with both greater insecurity in adult attachment and greater insecurity in attachment to the therapist being linked to lower working alliance ratings. Decreased security of attachment was associated with lower levels of exploration and lower ratings of the session as smooth or deep (even after controlling for working alliance). In terms of how attachment is related to working alliance over time, Eames and Roth (2000) found that security of attachment (i.e., low attachment anxiety and avoidance) was related to higher initial ratings of the working alliance and positive perceptions of the working alliance over time. On the other hand, those who were high on both attachment and avoidance tended to have lower working alliance ratings (as rated by both therapist and client), and experienced more ruptures. Those clients who were high on either attachment anxiety or avoidance (but not both) tended to initially have lower working alliance ratings, but improved over time. These results provide some support for the idea that it may be helpful if the therapist is able to provide a secure base consistently over time.</p>
<p>Most of the research on attachment and the psychotherapy relationship has focused on the working alliance. One study, however, examined links between attachment to the therapist and transference in a study of clients in relatively long-term psychotherapy in the community (Woodhouse, Schlosser, Crook, &amp; Ligiéro, 2003). This study found that clients who were high on preoccupied-merger attachment to the therapist, as expected, showed higher levels of transference overall and had more negative transference than those low on preoccupied-merger. There was no link between fearful-avoidant attachment to the therapist and transference. We had expected that secure attachment to the therapist would result in more accurate perceptions of the therapist and thus lower levels of transference. Surprisingly, we found that secure attachment to the therapist was linked to higher levels of negative transference. Upon reflection, we realized that perhaps this finding should not have been so surprising. We proposed that because clients who are securely attached to the therapist can view the therapist as a secure base, it is more likely that they will feel comfortable enough to explore more deeply, thus allowing negative transferential material to emerge. Perhaps the security of attachment to the therapist that allows clients to bring forth this transferential material also allows clients to gain insight into this material and shift internal working models of attachment as predicted by Bowlby (1988). More research will be needed, but the Woodhouse et al. findings are suggestive.</p>
<p>The research on attachment and countertransference has naturally tended to focus on the attachment styles of therapist-trainees (which is outside the scope of the present article), rather than clients. However, because of provocative findings that the attachment of the client <em>interacts</em> with the therapist-trainee attachment to predict countertransference behavior, I will also briefly mention two studies. Rubino, Barker, Roth, and Fearon (2000) asked therapist-trainees to respond to clinical vignettes of potential alliance ruptures representing clients with different attachment styles. Rubino et al. found that therapists high in attachment anxiety were less empathic, especially if the client was either secure (low attachment anxiety and low avoidance) or if the client was high in avoidance. Mohr, Gelso, and Hill (2005) found that therapist-trainees’ supervisors rated trainees high in attachment avoidance as exhibiting greater hostile countertransference behaviors if the client was high on attachment anxiety. On the other hand, those trainees who were high on attachment anxiety tended to show higher levels of hostile countertransference when clients were high on avoidance.</p>
<p>Thus far the focus has been on reviewing the research relevant to the psychotherapy relationship, but client attachment may also affect other aspects of the process of psychotherapy, such as clients’ memory for emotion that occurs within the psychotherapy session. Clinical observation would suggest that clients differ in how they remember in-session emotional events. Some clients seem to minimize in the next session what they felt during an important and emotional event in therapy the week before, whereas other clients seem overwhelmed as they remember a productive, yet emotional event from a prior session. Bowlby (1969/1982) theorized that emotion and emotion regulation are an important component of attachment working models and, as described above, research has shown that attachment strategies may be either hyperactivating (with vivid experiences and expressions of emotion and high attention to mood) or deactivating (tending to avoid both experiences and expressions of emotion; Kobak et al., 2003). Woodhouse and Gelso (2008) found that, as expected, volunteer clients who were high in attachment anxiety tended to show a memory bias in which they tended to remember negative emotion linked to a client-selected, unpleasant-emotion therapy event as significantly more negative than did volunteer clients lower in attachment anxiety. Results showed that clients tended to minimize negative affect that occurred during the session (regardless of level of attachment anxiety), but that volunteer clients who were high in anxiety tended to do so less than other clients. Clients high in anxiety were also found to ruminate on their mood to a higher degree than other clients. It is possible that such a hyperactivating memory bias that allows memory for negative in-session emotion to remain high may interfere with experiencing the therapist as a secure base. For example, if when in-session negative affect is high, clients who are high in attachment anxiety minimize that negative affect to a lesser degree than would those who are lower in attachment anxiety, this lower level of minimization may leave such clients with a sense that therapy is an emotionally uncomfortable experience without much comfort from the therapist. It may be important for clinicians to take this tendency into account and help clients high in attachment anxiety to later process negative affect that occurs in session.</p>
<p>Higher scores on avoidance were associated with more negative initial ratings of negative emotion in conjunction with the client-selected, unpleasant-emotion therapy event, although there was no evidence that volunteer clients high in attachment avoidance minimized that emotion the following week (Woodhouse &amp; Gelso, 2008). At the same time, however, these clients reported difficulty naming and categorizing their moods. Thus, clients high in avoidance may find it difficult to experience the therapist as a secure base if they experience higher levels of negative affect in session (than clients scoring lower on avoidance), yet at the same time find it difficult to identify and categorize these feelings. Such clients may experience counseling as difficult and confusing. It may be helpful for psychotherapists to consider ways of helping clients high in avoidance make sense of experiences of negative affect that occur in session, even if the clients do not tend to bring these issues to the attention of their therapists.</p>
<p>More research will be necessary to continue to understand how attachment is linked to the process of psychotherapy. However, results thus far paint a very interesting clinical picture. Readers who are interested in reading more about clinical applications of attachment theory and research may enjoy reading a book edited by Obegi and Berant (2009) that has recently been published. This book effectively integrates clinical material and research findings in a way that will be of great interest to clinicians, and explores the relevance of attachment theory across a variety of theoretical orientations (including psychoanalytic, interpersonal, and cognitive-behavioral therapy, as well as emotion focused couple counseling).</p>
<p align="center">References</p>
<p>Bartholomew, K., &amp; Horowitz, L. M. (1991). Attachment styles among young adults: A test of a four category model. <em>Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 61,</em> 226-244.</p>
<p>Bowlby, J. (1982). <em>Attachment and loss:  Vol. 1: Attachment</em> (2nd ed.). New York:  Basic Books. (Original work published 1969)</p>
<p>Bowlby, J. (1988). <em>A secure base:  Parent-child attachments and healthy human development.</em> New York:  Basic Books.</p>
<p>Brennan, K. A., Clark, C. L., &amp; Shaver, P. R. (1998). Self-report measurement of adult attachment:  An integrative overview.  In J. A. Simpson &amp; W. S. Rholes (Eds.), <em>Attachment theory and close relationships</em> (pp. 46-76).  New York:  Guilford Press.</p>
<p>Daniel, S. I. F. (2006). Adult attachment patterns and individual psychotherapy: A review. <em>Clinical Psychology Review, 26</em>, 968-984.</p>
<p>Eames, V., &amp; Roth, A. (2000). Patient attachment orientation and the early working alliance—A study of patient and therapist reports of alliance quality and ruptures. <em>Psychotherapy Research, 10</em>, 421-434.</p>
<p>Kivlighan, D. M., Jr., Patton, M. J., &amp; Foote, D. (1998). Moderating effects of client attachment on the counselor experience-working alliance relationship. <em>Journal of Counseling Psychology, 45,</em> 274-278.</p>
<p>Kobak, R. R., Cole, H. E., Ferenz-Gillies, R., Fleming, W. S., &amp; Gamble, W. (1993). Attachment and emotion regulation during mother-teen problem solving: A control theory analysis. <em>Child Development, 64</em>, 231-245.</p>
<p>Lopez, F. G. (1995). Contemporary attachment theory: An introduction with implications for counseling psychology. <em>The Counseling Psychologist, 23,</em> 395-415.</p>
<p>Lopez, F. G., &amp; Brennan, K. A. (2000). Dynamic processes underlying adult attachment organization: Toward an attachment theoretical perspective on the healthy and effective self. <em>Journal of Counseling Psychology, 47,</em> 283-300.</p>
<p>Mallinckrodt, B. (2000). Attachment, social competencies, social support, and interpersonal process in psychotherapy. <em>Psychotherapy Research, 10,</em> 239-266.</p>
<p>Mallinckrodt, B., Coble, H. M., &amp; Gantt, D. L. (1995). Working alliance, attachment memories, and social competencies of women in brief therapy. <em>Journal of Counseling Psychology, 42,</em> 79-84.</p>
<p>Mallinckrodt, B., Gantt, D. L., &amp; Coble, H. M. (1995). Attachment patterns in the psychotherapy relationship: Development of the Client Attachment to Therapist Scale. <em>Journal of Counseling Psychology, 42,</em> 307-317.</p>
<p>Mallinckrodt, B., Porter, M. J., Kivlighan, D. M., Jr., (2005). Client attachment to therapist, depth of in-session exploration, and object relations in brief psychotherapy. <em>Psychotherapy: Theory, Research, Practice, Training, 42</em>, 85-100</p>
<p>Mohr, J. J., Gelso, C. J., &amp; Hill, C. E. (2005). Client and counselor trainee attachment as predictors of session evaluation and countertransference behavior in first counseling sessions. <em>Journal of Counseling Psychology, 52</em>, 298-309.</p>
<p>Obegi, J. H., &amp; Berant, E. (2009). <em>Attachment theory and research in clinical work with adults</em>. New York: Guilford.</p>
<p>Parish, M., &amp; Eagle, M. N. (2003). Attachment to the therapist. <em>Psychoanalytic Psychology, 20</em>, 271-286.</p>
<p>Rubino, G., Barker, C., Roth, T., &amp; Fearon, P. (2000). Therapist empathy and depth of interpretation in response to potential alliance ruptures: The role of therapist and patient attachment styles. <em>Psychotherapy Research, 10</em>, 408-420.<em> </em></p>
<p>Satterfield, W. A., &amp; Lyddon, W. J. (1995). Client attachment and perceptions of the working alliance with counseling trainees. <em>Journal of Counseling Psychology, 42,</em> 187-189.</p>
<p>Woodhouse, S. S., &amp; Gelso, C. J., (2008). Volunteer client adult attachment, memory for in-session emotion, and mood awareness: An affect regulation perspective. <em>Journal of Counseling Psychology, 55</em>, 197-208.</p>
<p>Woodhouse, S. S., Schlosser, L. Z., Crook, R. E., Ligiéro, D. P., &amp; Gelso, C. J. (2003). Client attachment to therapist: Relations to transference and client recollections of parental caregiving. <em>Journal of Counseling Psychology, 50</em>, 395-408.</p>
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Iowa State University
Over the past decade, researchers have found that Bowlby’s attachment theory (1973, 1988) has important implications for counseling and psychotherapy (Cassidy &#38; Shaver, 1999, Lopez, 1995; Lopez &#38; Brennan, 2000; Mallinckrodt, 2000). Attachment theory is a theory of affect regulation and interpersonal relationships. When individuals have caregivers who are emotionally responsive, they [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>By Meifen Wei</h2>
<h3>Iowa State University</h3>
<p>Over the past decade, researchers have found that Bowlby’s attachment theory (1973, 1988) has important implications for counseling and psychotherapy (Cassidy &amp; Shaver, 1999, Lopez, 1995; Lopez &amp; Brennan, 2000; Mallinckrodt, 2000). Attachment theory is a theory of affect regulation and interpersonal relationships. When individuals have caregivers who are emotionally responsive, they are likely to develop a secure attachment and a positive internal working model of self and others. Currently, adult attachment could be described in terms of two dimensions, adult attachment anxiety and adult attachment avoidance. Adult attachment anxiety is conceptualized as the fear of interpersonal rejection and abandonment, excessive needs for approval from others, negative view of self, and hyper-activation of affect regulation strategies in which the person over-reacts to negative feelings as a mean to gain others’ comfort and support (Mikulincer, Shaver, &amp; Pereg, 2003). Conversely, adult attachment avoidance is characterized by fear of intimacy, excessive need for self-reliance, reluctance for self-disclosure, negative view of others, and deactivation of affect regulation strategy in which the person tries to avoid negative feelings or withdraw from intimate relationships (Mikulincer et al., 2003).</p>
<p>Bowlby (1988) acknowledged that attachment patterns are difficult to change in adulthood even though it is not impossible. Studies related to examining mediators of the relation between attachment and mental health outcomes are particularly important for counseling and psychotherapy because mediators can be potential interventions to help individuals relieve their distress. In addition, identifying the mediators can help individuals reduce the impact of attachment patterns without having to change the patterns, which is a more difficult task (e.g., Bowlby, 1988). Below are some suggestions from empirical studies in this area.</p>
<p>First, attachment theory serves as a solid foundation for understanding the development of ineffective coping strategies and the underlying dynamics of a person’s emotional difficulties. Clinicians can help those with attachment anxiety and avoidance understand how past experiences with caregivers or significant others have shaped their coping patterns and how these patterns work to protect them initially but later contribute to their experiences of distress (Lopez, Mauricio, Gormley, Simko, &amp; Berger, 2001; Wei, Heppner, &amp; Mallinckrodt, 2003). For example, those with attachment anxiety may learn that if they are “perfect,” they will be more likely to gain others’ love and acceptance (Wei, Heppner, Russell, &amp; Young, 2006; Wei, Mallinckrodt, Russell, &amp; Abraham, 2004). Conversely, those with attachment avoidance may drive themselves to be perfect in order to cover up their hidden sense of imperfections. They may think, “If I am perfect, no one will hurt me” (Flett, Hewitt, Oliver, &amp; Macdonald, 2002). Unfortunately, perfectionism is associated with greater depressive symptoms (e.g., Chang, 2002, Hewitt &amp; Flett, 1991). Therefore, potential clinical interventions can focus on modifying these individuals’ perfectionistic tendencies.</p>
<p>Second, clinicians can help those with attachment anxiety and avoidance find alternative ways to meet their unmet needs. Most people who seek help want to learn how to cope with dysfunction in their daily life and modify their dysfunctional or ineffective coping strategies. However, merely focusing on modifying the dysfunctional coping strategies does not guarantee that people will eventually cope well. In particular, people have acquired and continued to use dysfunctional strategies because these have served an adaptive function by helping individuals meet their basic psychological needs such as connection, competence, and autonomy in the past. For example, people’s motivation to be perfect may stem from their attachment figures’ failure to meet basic psychological needs. In other words, some individuals may wish to be perfect because during their development, they have learned that others will like them (i.e., fulfilling a need for connections), view them as capable (i.e., fulfilling a need for competence), and respect them (i.e., fulfilling a need for autonomy) if they are perfect. Unless these individuals’ unmet basic needs are satisfied by other means and learn other strategies, altering these individuals’ maladaptive strategies may be limited in terms of effectiveness. Also, if individuals believe their maladaptive strategies are the only ways to meet their psychological or emotional needs, then they may still choose not to give up these strategies, despite the negative mental health outcomes associated with these strategies. Therefore, helping people find alternative ways to meet their unmet needs is critical to solving their problems thoroughly. Wei, Shaffer, Young, and Zakalik (2005) provided empirical evidence that those with attachment anxiety and avoidance can decrease their shame, depression, and loneliness through meeting their basic psychological needs for connection, competence, and autonomy. Therefore, clinicians not only need to focus on changing maladaptive coping strategies, but also need to understand the underlying unmet needs that are satisfied by the use of these strategies as well as help individuals learn alternative ways to satisfy their psychological or emotional needs.</p>
<p>Third, clinicians need to know that people with different insecure attachment patterns (i.e., anxiety and avoidance patterns) may use different coping strategies to manage their life difficulties, which are associated with increased distress. For example, consistent with the prediction of attachment theory, those with attachment anxiety tend to use emotional reactivity (i.e., a hyper-activation strategy in which the person over-reacts to negative feelings) as a coping strategy, which is associated with distress. Conversely, those with attachment avoidance are inclined to use emotional cutoff (i.e., a deactivation strategy in which the person tries to avoid negative feelings) strategy, which is related to increased distress (Wei, Vogel, Ku, &amp; Zakalik, 2005).</p>
<p>Fourth, Mallinckrodt (2000) suggested providing counter-complimentary interventions when working with individuals with high attachment anxiety and avoidance. That is, counseling intervention can focus on breaking clients’ old patterns. For example, Wei, Ku, and Liao (2007) discovered that those with attachment anxiety, because of their negative view of self, can increase their well-being through enhancing their self-compassion. Gilbert and Irons (2005) suggested that writing a compassionate letter to the self or making an audiotape filled with compassionate thoughts or self-soothing statements can increase self-compassion. Also, those with high attachment anxiety can imagine how they felt when they were being taken care of by therapists or supportive others who represent alternative attachment figures. Eventually, those with high attachment anxiety can learn to be their own attachment figures (i.e., be their own parent) to provide self-compassion or self-care.</p>
<p>Conversely, because of their negative view of others and the deactivated attachment system (e.g., actively keeping distance from others or suppressing emotions), those with high attachment avoidance may gradually become less able to understand others and lose touch with others’ feelings or thoughts (Wei et al., 2007). The counter-complimentary strategy is thus to help them learn new ways to react empathically to others’ emotional experiences. Pistole (1989, 1999) proposed the concept of care-giving from attachment theory as a metaphor for the counseling relationship and process. In other words, therapists can be empathetic to individuals with high attachment avoidance in order to re-parent them. The therapists thus serve as role models for them so that these individuals can eventually learn to be empathetic to others, which may improve their subjective well-being.</p>
<p>Another study found that due to their negative view of self, assisting those with high attachment anxiety to increase their level of social self-efficacy (i.e., a strategy to increase their positive view of self) is an important strategy to decrease their loneliness and future depression. Conversely, those with high attachment avoidance tended to be reluctant for self-disclosure and hold a negative view of others. For these individuals, the study confirmed that counter-complimentary interventions which enhances their comfort level of self-disclosing to others (i.e., a strategy to decrease their reluctance in self-disclosure and increase their closeness with others) is an important strategy to decrease their loneliness and future depression (Wei, Russell, &amp; Zakalik, 2005).</p>
<p>In summary, attachment theory can be used to understand the development of coping patterns or relationship patterns and the underlying dynamics of a person’s emotional difficulties. Clinicians not only can help those with high attachment anxiety and avoidance to modify their ineffective coping strategy, but also can help them understand the underlying unmet needs that are satisfied by their ineffective coping strategy and learn alternative ways to satisfy their psychological or emotional needs (e.g., a need to connection, competence, and autonomy). Moreover, clinicians need to know that people with different insecure attachment patterns (i.e., anxiety and avoidance patterns) may use different coping strategies to manage their life difficulties. It is recommended that clinicians provide counter-complimentary intervention to help break clients’ old patterns.</p>
<h3>References</h3>
<p>Bowlby, J. (1973). <em>Attachment and loss</em>. Vol. 2: Separation. New York: Basic Books.</p>
<p>Bowlby, J. (1988). <em>A secure base: Parent–child attachment and healthy human development</em>.  New York: Basic Books.</p>
<p>Cassidy, J., &amp; Shaver, P. R. (1999). <em>Handbook of attachment: Theory, research, and clinical applications</em>. New York: Guilford Press.</p>
<p>Flett, G. L., Hewitt, P. L., Oliver, J. M., &amp; Macdonald, S. (2002). Perfectionism in children and their parents: A developmental analysis. In G. L. Flett &amp; P. L. Hewitt (Eds.), <em>Perfectionism: Theory, research, and treatment </em>(pp. 89–132). Washington, DC: American Psychological Association.</p>
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